Thursday, April 10, 2008

HALACHOS B’CHOL YOM

Recently a father asked Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser the following sheiloh. He was sitting at the Shabbos seudah with the family gathered around the table. As he started singing lively zemiros, he began to tap on a sefer that was on the table in front of him. His young son, 4-1/2 years old, looked up at him in wonderment, and said, “Totty, the sefer is heilig!” It didn’t seem right to the son that the father was tapping on a sefer.

The father repeated the story to Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser and asked whether his young son had indeed raised a valid point.


Kovod seforim is something of major import. The kovod that one has for a sefer is really the kovod that one has for limud Torah, for talmidei chachomim, and even the Torah itself! The basis of our halachos is derived from Mesechta Eruvin 98a:

Hoyoh korei b’rosh hagag … if one was reading on top of a roof, which is a reshus hayachid (a private domain), and one end of the book rolled from his hand into the reshus harabbim (the public domain) below … he should turn it over on its written side so that the lettering is not exposed.

Rashi says because it is an embarrassment for the sefer to lie open and be exposed to the streets, therefore he should turn the side with the letters to the wall.

The Gemara asks: Is it permitted to turn sifrei kodesh on their written side? The Braisa teaches us that those who write Torah, Tefillin and Mezuzos were not allowed to turn the writing face-down. But rather, a person should spread a garment over it. The Gemara answers that it was not possible to cover this particular sefer because there was no garment readily available that was large enough. Therefore, in order to avoid disgrace to the sefer, it’s better that he does not leave the writing face-up.

In Yoreh Dei’ah Siman 277 we learn that if a person wrote a page in fresh ink and he wants to leave it to dry, he should not turn the page with the writing side face-down, even though his intent is that dirt should not come upon the writing. It is nevertheless considered to be degrading and therefore one should rather place a covering on the page for protection.

The Taz in Yoreh De’ah Siman 271 makes a strong statement concerning kedushas haseforim. “Whoever is lenient regarding this matter, in the future will have to give din v’cheshbon.”

In the Sefer Maavir Yabok it is written that seforim that are published have the kedusha of a sefer that was written with a quill. Furthermore, a person should not do anything in the room where there are seforim that would be considered disrespectful to the seforim, unless the sefer is enclosed in a kli toch kli – in two coverings -- or if there is a mechitzah of 10 tefochim between the person and the seforim.

The Sefer Yeshuas Chochmah writes that there are those who are noheg to put a sefer on top of an open sefer when they wish to interrupt their learning. He writes that this is forbidden and cites the Pischei Teshuvah in Yoreh De’ah Siman 282, in the name of the Chamudei Daniel, that it is forbidden to put a sefer into another sefer in order to hold one’s place so that he will not have to find it at a later point.

Some say that if closing the sefer will cause bitul Torah then it may be possible to utilize another sefer to keep one’s place.

This is according to the Taz in Yoreh De’ah 282 that forbids putting a sefer on top of another sefer in order to elevate the sefer, for that is making mundane use out of a sefer, as if it were a piece of wood or a stone.

However, the Mogen Avrohom writes that it is permissible to take a sefer and put it under another sefer to raise it.

If the sefer was already on the table and the person places his sefer on top of it in order to elevate his sefer, then it’s permissible. However, one should be careful about actually taking a sefer to place it underneath.

In general, one should be careful about leaving a sefer open when he leaves the room where he is learning. In the Sefer Zikoron of HaGaon R’ Chaim Kanievsky, shlita, he writes that leaving a sefer open is one of the things that a person should be careful about because it can bring a person to shichecha – forgetfulness. Therefore, a person should remember to close the sefer, or at least to cover it, when he is going to take leave his sefer. This accomplishes two things: (1) It is proper kovod for the kedusha of the sefer and (2) it will not cause forgetfulness.

It is written in the Sheilos U’Teshuvos of the Yaskil Avdi that it is forbidden to leave a sefer open even for a short time. He writes that this is even for the amount of time that it would take ink to dry. He cites the Shach that there is a malach named Shomer Dafim that is appointed over those who leave a sefer open, who causes one to forget. It would seem as though this malach looks for opportunities to fulfill his mission. And as soon as he sees it, he recognizes his opportunity to act.

There is a question as to when this particular din applies. Is it merely if a person needs to leave the room for a moment, and he will certainly return immediately? What if he merely needs to get up to search for a different sefer? Or is it if he goes outside of the bais medrash?

The Aruch HaShulchan writes in 277 it’s specifically when a person goes out to the street. Then a person needs to cover the sefer or close it. However, a person who goes from room to room, or even from the courtyard to the street, not for an extended period of time, does not have to worry. It depends upon what the person is going to do when he leaves the sefer, i.e., he is leaving only for a few moments, and his intent is to come back and resume his learning.


Before the fame of the great tzaddik, the Rebbe R’ Elimelech of Lizhensk, had spread throughout the world, a man who had just finished davening took a seat at a small desk on the side of the bais medrash. These were the old-fashioned desks that used to have a compartment underneath the seat. The man noticed what looked like a sefer sticking out from under the seat. He took it out and looked somewhat skeptically at the new sefer. What is this Noam Elimelech? “Who is the one who wrote it?” he asked one of the talmidei chachomim who happened to be passing by. The talmid chochom answered him, “If you would know who the Noam Elimelech is, you would put the sefer on top of the chair, and you would crawl into the compartment!”

57 comments:

Anonymous said...

glad to finde your blog, thank you for helping me to understend better Halachot

Anonymous said...

I love Rabbi Goldwasser's torah, he is a real tzadik.

Unknown said...

That was truly inspiring Thanks

Unknown said...

WOW!

Unknown said...

any possibility of posting nine day halchos?

Anonymous said...

Finally somebody hu can reach to our hearts.

Anonymous said...

It's amazing, points from every corner. This way there is no additional questions, everything is clear.

Anonymous said...

Unbelivable !

Unknown said...

I KNOW THAT THERE IS KEDUSHA TO HEBREW SEFARIM, BUT IS THERE KEDUSHA TO TORAH BOOK WRITTEN IN ENGLISH AS WELL?

Anonymous said...

amazing words

Anonymous said...

I am sharing your toughts with my friends and we enoy, than you Rabbi Goldwasser

Unknown said...

On Tisha B'Av, were are told that we must mourn for the BHMK as if it was destroyed in our time. How can one really relate to that? how can one really reach the level of begining to understand and feel what the BHMK was to us individually and as a klal?

We need to all take a closer look at our lives today. It's as if we are not tuned in to reality, Hash-m's reality. we need to look at what we lack, how hard our Nisyonos really are. Are we truely happy? Are our lives going perfectly, according to plan? is it our plan or Hash-m's?

Once we can think about these things we can begin to see what we have truely lost.

Upon losing the BHMK, we lost our relationship with HKBH, we lost all sense of clarity including Nevuah. We lost our sense of security in our Avodas Hash-m and in eveything that we do. It's unfortuante that many people go through life without figuring out what their purpose in the world was, what their caparos were and what middos did they need to perfect.

We must daven this Tisha B'Av that it be our last one that we mourn and HKBH should return His Shechina to the final BHMK and this endless galus of darkness and hate end BEMHEIRA BEYAMEINU!!!

Anonymous said...

So good, so deep !

Anonymous said...

we realy enjoy reading your halahos, whole family, thank You.

Anonymous said...

during the time of the second bais hamikdash did they still mourn the loss of the first ? a question for rabbi dovid goldwasser

Anonymous said...

I'll fast for first time in my 27years short ( or long) life, just becouse you make me clear that I have to.

Anonymous said...

My day start with your Morninh chizuk and ends with one of your blogs
Thank You, may HSB bless you

Anonymous said...

Thank You, it was very, very difficult but I have done it.
My first fast day in my life !
I am so proud !

Anonymous said...

We are VERY Proud of you. May You have koach to fast many more ADD ME'AH VE'ESRIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

It is considered worse in Hash-m's eyes if we are less afraid to do something wrong in private. This is because it shows a lack of Yiras Hash-m on our part because we care more about what people will say than what Hash-m will say.

computer technition said...

The biggest chesed one can do for a friend is chesed of the soul- Bring him to do Teshuva, teach him, guide him and bring his Neshama closer to HKBH!

Anonymous said...

hope all bad people will become better reading your words

Anonymous said...

your goodness spreads all over, thank you Rabbi

Unknown said...

Praising one in public may be considered Avak Lashon Hara, and is therefore prohibitted. This is because the insincere and undeserving may take advantage or hurt him.

Unknown said...

Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser once taught what does it mean to hate someone? It means that aperson has a distancing of the heart. It means that any degree of seperation is an issur!

Unknown said...

Vayikra Rabba says that Bnai Yisroel are like a vine. At first vines are trampled upon and lie on the ground, but later are served on the table to the kings. So too Klal Yisroel, at times we are trampled on but eventually we will reach the greatest heights.

Anonymous said...

The Baal HaTanya says that one is ONLY ALLOWED to hate someone who is close and dear to him because he won't push him away.

Anonymous said...

Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser said that every child has the potential to grow up to be a Gadol Hadar.

Anonymous said...

If the churban Bais Sheini happened as a result of Sinas Chinum, and we are well aware of it, then how come we've been unable to fix the problem for almost two thousand years? We have have trendous Gedolei Yisroel live among us and if they couldn't end this Galus, how can we?

Unknown said...

Just remember that this Shabbos, Tu B'Av we don't say Av Harachamim

Anonymous said...

reading Joey comment I don't know what to think. If You don't praise someone who is good how will people know about him. I don't think praising has anything to do with Loshon horo if that is truth, that can be only stimulative and supportiv, but yes, if the praising is false and person is in fackt worthless then indead it's loshon horo or simlpe a lie.

Unknown said...

The chachamim say in Berachos 34b- "Bamakom Shebaalei Teshuva Omdem Ein Tzadikim Gemurim Yecholin Laamod." In the place of a Baalei Teshuva, no great tzadik can stand.

This is the greatness of shabbos nachamu--that we realize that just as there has been retribution for our sins, Hash-m awaits our Teshuva in order to reward us.

Anonymous said...

"Nachamu Nachamu Ami"--Rav Shamshon Rafael Hirsch says Nachem is also a lashon of change like when Hash-m said by the Mabul Nachamti--Kavyachol that Hash-m changed His mind as it were. By reading the Haftoras of Nechama and hearing others speaking to us, we change from the disheartened state that we have been in, to a happier state of being.

Anonymous said...

We learn in Gemara Taanis that there were never such Yomim Tovim as Chamisha Asar B'Av and Yom Hakippurim and the Bnos Yisroel would go out dressed in borrowed white clothing.

R' Shmuel Slonim comments that this alludes to the days of great Teshuvah, when we are granted forgiveness for our sins--that they last from Tu B'Av to Yom Kippur.
Whoever can inspire to do Teshuva, how good it is. Even if a person cannot inspire himself, only through Koach of the inheritence of his forefathers who were righteous, that is also good. A person who does not possess the self-inspiration to do Teshuva nor does he have the Yerusha, he should at least borrow from his rebbeim and from friends to be inspired during these holy days.

Anonymous said...

On Tisha B'Av we say "Eicha Yashva Vedod--how is it that Tzion dwells alone? Ha'ir Rabosi Am--the city that was so filled with people?

The great Tzaddik R' Levy Yitzchok of Berditchev says in the future we will read the same Eicha but with a different intonation. "Eicha Yashva Vedod-- how was this city once desolate? Ha'ir Rabosi Am-- look at its hundreds and thousands of people!

Unknown said...

The Rambam teaches in Hilchos De'os that a person should avoid having extreme personality traits. (be strong yet flexible, compassionate yet firm.) However, anger should be avoided as much as possible. It should be the only trait that should be avoided altogether.

Anonymous said...

We learn in the Iggeres HaRamban that "anger is a most serious character flaw and causes a person to sin".
When someone is consumed in their rage and and constantly loses their temper, nothing can restrain them. They are easily pulled toward Tum'ah and their Yetzer will take over. Anger severs the relationship with HKBH, and wont stop to think before committing a sin. The Talmud (shabbos 105b) tells us that "the man who loses himself to anger is considered to have worshipped idols!"

Anonymous said...

It says in the Iggeres HaRamban, "U'VaZeh Tinatzel Min Ha Ca'aas." "Gentle speech will protect you from anger."

One way to maintain self-control, the Reishis Chochmah advises, is to avoid LOOKING the eyes of the person when you are intensely angered.

Anonymous said...

We may get frustrated at times when things aren't going as we like them to and we resort to frustration and sometimes even anger. The Talmud teaches us something most comforting: There are no men that left this world without sinning. so therefore HKBH has TREMENDOUS Rachmanus on us by sending us retribution small bits at a time (instead of sending one CHAS VE'SHALOM devastating blows). We learn that these retributions, depending on the individuals purification needs, can range anywhere from, dropping your car keys when your hands are full, missing your bus/ train when you are running late already, taking out a dime when you need a penny etc. Instead of looking at our daily life as hassle we should thank HKBH for doing kindness to us.

Anonymous said...

R' Yehuda Segal Z'TL talked about the importance of learning Shmiras Halashon each day. He developed a specail canlander for this purpose. In his will he asked that the calander be buried with him , and he explained it would serve as his passport to Gan Eden.

Anonymous said...

please write something again

Anonymous said...

How inspirational ! Thank You !

Anonymous said...

I am complet ignorant in comparison with people giving they comments, but I am glad I can read and see how smart our people are.

Unknown said...

HKBH told us: "Ve'asu Li Mikdash, Ve'Shachanti B'Socham."-- make for Me a holy PLACE and I wil dwell among THEM. How can HKBH dwell in THEM when we only have ONE?

Chazal tell us that it means that each and everyone of us MUST try to make a place in our Neshamos for HKBH's existance. Torah and mitzvos should not be just rituals and services; We need to allow our Avodas Hash-m penetrate deep in our hearts and remember that we are fulfilling our creator's desire of us. Though we have a central Mikdash where the Shechina rests, each home, our place of Torah and Mitzvos, including our soul should have a place for HKBH's existance.

Anonymous said...

HKBH says: "Woe to My children that because of their transgressions I have destroyed My home, and burned my sanctuary, and have exiled them from their homeland." The Talmud (Berachos 3a) tells us that HKBH repeats this 3 times a day everyday.

Are we listening? and what is OUR response?

Unknown said...

It states in Yesod VeShoersh HaAvoda 1:5, that we should have a constant awareness of giving HKBH Nachas with every action that we commit. (whether it's tefilla, chesed, learning or watching others doing Mitzvos) we should realize that we are making Hash-m proud of us.
It's so easy to concentrate on doing things perfectly and meeting all the requirements and the have- to's that we forget at the end of the day, our Loving Heavenly Father just wants to be proud of us. (Like any human parent is proud of their children, it's parallel to HKBH's relationship with us.)

Anonymous said...

We learn in Iggeres Haramban that we should accustom ourselves to speak gently to all people at all times.

a)Accustom yourself--for life's surprises. If we can imagine the worst(chas ve'shalom)and in our mind's eye see our reaction and resolution and we won't take life as hard as it can hit us sometimes.
b)to speak gently--No matter how upset you get, even if it's justified and you must rebuke the person, do it calmly. Do not lose your state of calmness and cool.
c)to all people--respect everyone equally. If someone embarrasses you terribly, remain calm, especailly when one is being a nudge.. we also learn that it can mean people we don't appreciate. (parents, spouses, friends etc)
d)at all times-- when life has drained every last bit of strength from your soul, when you're frustrated, confused, and when the darkness seems endless, hold your head up high. HKBH is taking care of you; Remain calm and SPEAK GENTLY.

Anonymous said...

did rabbi dovid goldwasser right on the subject of making a wedding at the end of the month ?

Unknown said...

We learn in Iggeres Haramban that: "once you have distant yourself from anger, the quality of humility will enter your heart."
An angry person feels inferior to everyone else around. When poeple live for and depend on the opinion of others, they don't value their own self-worth and therefore lack self-esteem. When people won't praise him, he'll feel a certain anger and hostility and cannot be humble as a result. (Alei shur, volume I p.42)

Anonymous said...

we learn in Chovot Halevavot, that a person who distances himself from anger/resentment is led toward true humility. He then strives to reach toward Hishtachavut-equillibriam. So therefore he no longer cares if you he's praised or insulted. He self-esteem is from with in himself.

Anonymous said...

I was never tought of this issue.
Now I see the importance

Anonymous said...

There is a Rambam on Mishna Avos that says the root of the word Simcha is Macha- to erase. Inorder to be truely happy we have to forget/ "erase" our own needs and desires and place the Ratzon of Hash-m (and others) first. We can therefore achieve a level of humility if we are not so quick to be angered when offended.

Unknown said...

We learn in Iggeres Haramban that: "Humility- This sterling quality is the finest of all admirable traits." This quote is parallel to the Rambam's: "Humility is the ladder which leads to sublime heights. Remember: There is no ornament as attractive as humility.

Anonymous said...

Tomer Devorah (ch.II) states that humility is the key factor in achieving/ perfecting all other middos. Meaning that when one can truely have humility a part of them, then it is as if they open a pure pathway that allows Divine "energy" to flow through. When we make humility a part of our nature, we can filter out all Gaivadik (and other) feelings and be more attuned to the needs and desires of our Creator, the Ribbono Shel Olam.

Unknown said...

The Shevet Mussar (ch.17) teaches us a few ways we can achieve humility:
Speaking gently- Always be in control of your emotions and speak in agentle tone of voice regardless of who you speak to.
Accepting praise- When one is undervingly praise, be quick to disagree. and when justifyiably praised and honored, one should be abashed; because there's always so much left for all of us to accomplish.
Avoiding revenge- when one has the midda of humility, he does not take revenge. A humble person is slow to anger and offend and can slowly with time, erase the insult from his memory.
Acceptance- A humble person can accept Tzaros with continuous love for HKBH.

A humble person is Zocheh for special HAshgacha Pratis, as Dovid Hamelech said: "He leads the humble with justice and will teach the humble His way." -Tehilim-25:9

Unknown said...

Sefer HaMiddos tells us: As soon as the world begin to devoloe a humble trait in all its people, then we can all expect the coming of Moshiach!(Sanhedrin 98a)

Menoras HaMeor adds that the most humble men that lived, will be honored as heroes in the times of Moshiach- "When Hash-m shows favor to His nation, He will glorify the humble at the time of Salvation"- Tehilim (149:4)

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